5 quotes from For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women : ‘Even if a woman knows in her head that her husband finds her beautiful. For Men Only has ratings and reviews. If you read my review on Ms. Feldhahn’s other book, ‘For Women Only,’ I think you won’t be surprised that the. Shaunti and Jeff have unearthed a treasure chest of insights—eye-opening and life-changing.” —Andy Stanley, senior pastor, North.

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Published May 1st by Multnomah Books first published April 3rd Has a few interesting insights, and the statistics seem useful. His wise male friend’s advice, “ask her if he is talking to his sweet wife Lori or Helga the crazed mutant? Aug 31, Kristina Wilson rated it it was ok Shelves: I chose this as a “book targeted at the other gender” for Tim Challies’ reading challenge.

The authors surveyed women from all across the US and compiled this book. I started looking for ways to make my wife remain in a constant state of romance and it has made a huge difference on her quality of life. At the time, I had also read “For Women Only,” the counterpart to this book, in an effort to offer notes and comments on it for my then-girlfriend’s benefit. Listen to your woman’s concerns, give her all your ears, hug her, suggest an action for her worries, or take one.

When you see or feel something is wrong between you and your women, ask her what’s wrong? I like how even though the book comes from a Christian background, it’s not overbearing, something that for many can be offputting and push people farther away.

For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women by Shaunti Feldhahn

The little “x” can be closed only when resolved. There are tidbits to be gleaned, both for men and women, but as before, I recommend that couples look at this book together, and consider the lens used to write it. In their groundbreaking classic, For Men Only, Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn reveal the eye-opening truths and simple acts that will radically improve your relationship with the woman you love.


As I’m reading, since it’s written from a male perspective to men, I’m gaining insight even though the book is about women.

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For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women

Furthermore, throughout the book Feldhahn insists that onlt husband needs to reassure his wife that she is There is some decent advice in this book, but you’ll have to mine for it through the insultingly chummy delivery, Old Sport. Don’t look for brilliant marriage guidance here, however, you might find a few ideas that could improve your marriage. Only when you read both this book and its counterpart which is pretty heavy-handed against women for their flaws does everything fall into place as a mutual effort to improve the marriage and each other.

Instead, this book is a conglomeration of facts and statistics that give men insights to what women are thinking. Almost all of these obly fade, however, when this book is read in conjunction with its counterpart.

Not being a researcher, I can’t speak to the reliability of their research, but from what I do know, it’s not so weak as to be discounted out of hand. We usually get angry or defensive when they answer our question the first time we ask.

Worries will go away when the bad feelings are gone, as men we need to help our women by resolving these emotional issues not by telling them “just don’t worry or forget about it”.

Reldhahn by Shaunti FeldhahnJeff Feldhahn. He could’ve helped men understand that the uterine functions are not to be feared, tip-toed around, or insulted under the guise of joking.

Women have several windows open at once, all Hopefully this book does not “Blow Your Mind”, because if it does, you probably didn’t know jack squat about women whatsoever.

I think far too tor time and emphasis was spent on physical appearance and sex. Th I read this just to make sure my husband was getting reliable information when he read it Feb 05, Joel Arnold rated it it was ok. Mar 19, Pages.


Most women prefer low income job and more time with their husbands more than high income and low parent and husband time. Really good book, I learned a lot. Jeff Feldhahn uses w I’ve read plenty of books on marriage and relationships and this small book has been one of the most influential books on women that I have ever olny. Try to understand her, repeat those feeling to her to assure her that you gave her your attention. Jul 29, Steve Bremner rated it really liked it. I always enjoy audio books that are read by the author.

The advice about dealing with your wife when she is “Helga the Horrible” during her “Situation Days” is to gentle talk to her. So buy this book, read it a couple of times, underline a few key ideas, and then keep it where you can review it regularly.

For Men Only Quotes by Shaunti Feldhahn

View all 3 comments. Aug 11, Brandon Vaughan rated it it was amazing Shelves: As if their working assumption is men are not capable of reading beyond the 3rd grade level.

fot Jan 04, Kayleen Mackey rated it liked it. You can minimize them but they can’t just go away until the anxiety is directly resolved.

This book is a must read for any man married. The books are very short, direct, easy-to-follow, and quick to read. I walked away with a few discussion points I’ll bring up with my wife, but overall was somewhat insulted by it’s presentation and disappointed by its lack of depth. She wants to feel 1 You are close to her; do small silly stuff like the stuff you used to do before marrying her, ex.

Of course it is lovely to be complimented, but it is so much more important to be fldhahn for who I am, not what I look like.